Archive for the ‘Sex Education’ Category

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You wanna stick what? Where?

March 2, 2006

NOTE: I don’t think this is exactly what you were thinking of Jeff, but this was where I was going the other day. For anyone that’s looking for a wonderful post on g-spots in general, check out Susie Bright’s post here. Thank you figleaf, for pointing me in that direction.

[...February 28, 2006 -- The shocking new sex procedure that has women gasping.

THIS is one plastic surgery you won't be able to point out during red-carpet arrivals. Forget the lip injections and the breast implants; the hottest place for stars to get shot up with collagen this year is ... the G spot. That elusive female pleasure point - whose very existence was the subject of medical debate for years, and continues to confound many a well-intentioned man - is the pet project of Dr. David Matlock, Beverly Hills OB-GYN, laser surgeon and passionate defender of a woman's right to orgasms.

Lots of them...]

Click here to read the rest of the article.

The “G-Shot”? Nuh uh!

Seriously ladies (and gents who are intrigued by this procedure), having some doctor stick a needle (a needle for good god sake) and inject collagen into your (or your lovers) tender bits in the name of pleasure is just silly.

Why, when there are so many other creative and natural ways to reach orgasm, would anyone even consider it?

Maybe it’s because you feel you’re one of those women who just can’t seem to reach orgasm or if you do, it’s such a finger-breaking, battery-killing event it hardly seems worth it?

I used to be one of those women who felt that way, and I completely understand the frustration, but as frustrating as trying to bring myself to orgasm used to be for me (and forget about my lovers, it would be a cold day in hell before any of them could get me off), I would never consider letting anyone inject my g-spot with anything just to make it easier on myself (or my lovers).

Why? You ask.

Well, to my way of thinking, it’s just not natural and more than a bit masochistic. And honestly, for me, setting yourself up for fool proof, all hits–no misses sexual gratification takes the fun out of the many yummy ways there are to achieve orgasm.

But SD, didn’t you hear me? I can’t come, I just can’t.

Oh, yes, you can. And if you believe you can, you will.

There are a multitude of women who have this crazy misconception that they’re somehow broken or that their equipment isn’t quite up to par and they’re just not built for pleasure. And for those women who feel that sexually, they’re not all there, this procedure more than likely sounds like some kind of saving grace. But I don’t see it that way.

Women, in their many wonderful shapes and forms, can all reach orgasm without taking such drastic measures to get there. And, in my opinion, those who still feel they can’t, just aren’t comfortable enough yet with their sexuality to get where they want to go. I wasn’t, and it was a rough and at times, disheartening ride to the finish line, but now that I’m there, I’m glad I never threw in the towel. Look at all the wonderful things I would have missed. In the end, all I had to do was learn to be comfortable with my body and embrace the pleasure I can give myself. And once you get there, it’s incredibly easy to teach your partner what it is that makes your toes curl, your eyes roll, your stomach clutch and your pussy pulse. See, easy as pie.

As for the illustrious g-spot orgasm–personally, I’ve never had one, and because I love experiencing new sensations, I can only hope that the Gods of sexual pleasure decide to smile down on me one of these days, but if they don’t, I’ll just have to live with my kickass, eye-rolling clitoral orgasms. Oh, the torture.

I don’t expect everyone or well, anyone for that matter, to agree with me, but whether you do or you don’t, I’d love to hear your two cents on the “G Shot.

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Enquiring minds want to know…

December 14, 2005

I’m behind the times here, ladies and gents, but that’s not a new thing.

Awhile back I reincarnated a post entitled Cocksucking 101, as it was and still is my most popular search phrase, and when I did, I posed the question…

Are there really people out there legitimately looking for a class on cocksucking?

And in responding Aragorn suggested that I might get a better response if I twisted the question a bit and since his suggestion ultimately piqued my curiosity, I’ve decided that I must know the answer.

So without further ado…

Are there any men out there that think their partners could (should) take a class in cock sucking?

Well, what do you think? And don’t be shy, nobody (least of all me) is going to bite you (not hard, anyway) if you answer in the positive.

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Reminiscing.

November 11, 2005

Seeing as the phrase “Cocksucking 101″ still garners numerous search engines hits on the daily, I figured I’d go ahead and reincarnate it for your viewing pleasure. But first, I have a question…

Are there really people out there legitimately looking for a class on cocksucking?

Enquiring minds (mainly mine) want to know.

One of these days, I’ll write something new and maybe, just maybe we’ll hold that class on cocksucking that was requested from a few of you lovely people but in the mean time, let’s revisit an oldie but apparently goodie…

J recently issued a challenge…

So…I want to throw down a challenge…I want the BEST blowjob/hand job by any of you. As you know from my blog, I love to face fuck and get my cock worshipped. And have REALLY been getting into showing off my cock. So. I want any of you to post and tell me why you are such a good cocksucker.

And since I never could resist a challenge…

Of course, I’ve never been any good at conforming to rules so, instead of describing my best blowjob, I’ve decided to impart my knowledge on all of you lovely people.

Welcome to ‘Cocksucking 101′.

Sit back, relax, enjoy the show and by all means, feel free to participate.

I love cock and since (sadly) I don’t have one, everything — texture, weight, feel, smell, taste — about that glorious creature fascinates me. There are times when I’m eye level with A’s cock and I just want to lean forward and sink my teeth into all that hot, hard, smooth flesh (not a good idea, by the way, a little nibbling maybe but no biting). I don’t know why but there’s just something so elemental about taking a cock into my mouth and feasting on all that delicious flesh.Yum.

Let’s begin, shall we?

Soft or hard? It doesn’t matter, wrapping your lips around a soft cock and feeling it come to life in your mouth is extremely sexy. Try it, you’ll like it.

And once you’ve got it where you want it, start slow… teasing nibbles, feathery kisses, delicate licks, breathy whispers, soft hums. Don’t be afraid to play, the receiver of all that playfulness will thank you (trust me).Work your way up to more aggressive licks… try flattening your tongue and dragging it up, from base to tip, stopping briefly to circle the head (or glans, if you want to be proper) with the very tip of your tongue before moving back down. Lots of tongue is always a good thing.And don’t ignore his balls. Some guys don’t like their balls touched or licked during oral sex but most do. Be gentle with them but make sure they get some attention too… gentle sucking, soft caressing, light rubbing … cup them in your palm and massage them delicately, run your tongue lightly over them, take them into your mouth and suck softly. All good things.

Now comes the sucking part (Mmm)… wrap your lips around the head (and remember plenty of suction is a key ingredient here) — watch the teeth (they’re no fun or so I’ve been told) — and slide on down, taking him as deep as you can before sliding your mouth back up the length of his cock. Now, I’m a hand and mouth girl. I rarely suck cock without wrapping my hand around the base. There are a couple reasons for that… #1. I can control how deep I take his cock into my mouth AND #2. A little stroking while your lips and tongue focus on the head is always nice. And if you’re in a position where both hands are free, then use your other hand to stimulate his balls (or other areas… his perineum, his ass, his thighs, his chest) while you’re sucking and stroking his cock.

Now comes the rough part. When the fuck is he going to cum? Your lips are numb, your jaws are sore, your hand is cramped and you have a kink in your neck that you’ll probably be feeling for days and he still hasn’t cum. What’s with that? Well, I hate to be the bearer of bad news but some guys just don’t cum during oral, it’s a pity and all but that’s the breaks. All that fretting and un-needed pain isn’t necessary. Don’t worry about it. Making him cum shouldn’t be the main focus, there are other ways to achieve that. Just enjoy him… his taste… his feel… his smell… Showing him that you appreciate, adore and love his cock is more than enough. I swear. I wouldn’t steer you wrong.

Now go on… practice, practice, practice (and let me know how it cums out — sorry, couldn’t help myself).

Enjoy.

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“Cocksucking 101″

June 21, 2005

J recently issued a challenge…

So…I want to throw down a challenge…I want the BEST blowjob/hand job by any of you. As you know from my blog, I love to face fuck and get my cock worshipped. And have REALLY been getting into showing off my cock. So. I want any of you to post and tell me why you are such a good cocksucker.

And since I never could resist a challenge…

Of course, I’ve never been any good at conforming to rules so, instead of describing my best blowjob, I’ve decided to impart my knowledge on all of you lovely people.

Welcome to ‘Cocksucking 101′.

Sit back, relax, enjoy the show and by all means, feel free to participate.

I love cock and since (sadly) I don’t have one, everything — texture, weight, feel, smell, taste — about that glorious creature fascinates me. There are times when I’m eye level with A’s cock and I just want to lean forward and sink my teeth into all that hot, hard, smooth flesh (not a good idea, by the way, a little nibbling maybe but no biting). I don’t know why but there’s just something so elemental about taking a cock into my mouth and feasting on all that delicious flesh.

Yum.

Let’s begin, shall we?

Soft or hard? It doesn’t matter, wrapping your lips around a soft cock and feeling it come to life in your mouth is extremely sexy. Try it, you’ll like it.

And once you’ve got it where you want it, start slow… teasing nibbles, feathery kisses, delicate licks, breathy whispers, soft hums. Don’t be afraid to play, the receiver of all that playfulness will thank you (trust me).

Work your way up to more aggressive licks… try flattening your tongue and dragging it up, from base to tip, stopping briefly to circle the head (or glans, if you want to be proper) with the very tip of your tongue before moving back down. Lots of tongue is always a good thing.

And don’t ignore his balls. Some guys don’t like their balls touched or licked during oral sex but most do. Be gentle with them but make sure they get some attention too… gentle sucking, soft caressing, light rubbing … cup them in your palm and massage them delicately, run your tongue lightly over them, take them into your mouth and suck softly. All good things.

Now comes the sucking part (Mmm)… wrap your lips around the head (and remember plenty of suction is a key ingredient here) — watch the teeth (they’re no fun or so I’ve been told) — and slide on down, taking him as deep as you can before sliding your mouth back up the length of his cock. Now, I’m a hand and mouth girl. I rarely suck cock without wrapping my hand around the base. There are a couple reasons for that… #1. I can control how deep I take his cock into my mouth AND #2. A little stroking while your lips and tongue focus on the head is always nice. And if you’re in a position where both hands are free, then use your other hand to stimulate his balls (or other areas… his perineum, his ass, his thighs, his chest) while you’re sucking and stroking his cock.

Now comes the rough part. When the fuck is he going to cum? Your lips are numb, your jaws are sore, your hand is cramped and you have a kink in your neck that you’ll probably be feeling for days and he still hasn’t cum. What’s with that? Well, I hate to be the bearer of bad news but some guys just don’t cum during oral, it’s a pity and all but that’s the breaks. All that fretting and un-needed pain isn’t necessary. Don’t worry about it. Making him cum shouldn’t be the main focus, there are other ways to achieve that. Just enjoy him… his taste… his feel… his smell… Showing him that you appreciate, adore and love his cock is more than enough. I swear. I wouldn’t steer you wrong.

Now go on… practice, practice, practice (and let me know how it cums out — sorry, couldn’t help myself).

Enjoy.