Checkmate–Game Over (Asexual Post).

Jealousy: Hostility toward a rival or one believed to enjoy an advantage.

I’ve always hated that word, it’s ugly and pointless, but alas, it happens to be a part of almost every persons vocabulary and there isn’t a bloody thing I can do about that, is there? No, there isn’t.

But what I can do is address the issues some maniacal, narcissistic, egotistical and I suspect psychotic person and/or persons have with that rather childish emotion in regards to myself, my blog(s) and those whom I love.

People who have a predilection for playing God annoy me, they really do. Why? Because us mere mortals always end up caught in the crossfire, shoveling shit that isn’t ours to shovel and some poor unsuspecting and blissfully innocent soul always ends up getting hurt because someone decided their ego needed a bit of a stroking. Pardon my language, but fuck that.

I sat back and watched while some asshole parodied blogs and compromised peoples real life identities because apparently their goodies just weren’t enough to fill the cookie jar and they weren’t having that shit. Well, guess what? That’s life–deal! You don’t go trying to fuck up other peoples “real” lives and chase them off the internet because you’re apparently not as good a fuck as you thought you were. You don’t own the fucking internet for fucks sake–no one does. Really, who the fuck do some people think they are? Anonymity as far as blogging goes, especially sex blogging, is a personal choice and I imagine there are a vast amount of reasons people do it. For me, it’s not a personal need to protect my identity, but more of an “it’s more mysterious” thing. If my anonymity were blown today it wouldn’t affect me one way or the other, I have nothing to hide, most, if not all, of my family and friends know that this blog exists (most have the URL) and pretty much all of them know about my relationship with Dane. But it’s not like that for everyone and for someone to take it upon themselves to start “outing” people because it feeds their God complex is disgusting.

And now, after enduring that disgusting display of narcissism, I have to sit back and watch some “anonymous” commenter go around spreading their ignorance in some childish smear campaign they’ve launched out of envy or spite or any other number of bullshit issues against ménage à trois and the women affiliated (myself included) with that blog.

Sorry, folks, not this time. I refuse to sit back and watch this time around, I’m jumping in head first and sink or swim, no more bullshit games, no more playing God and no more jealous attacks of insecurity launched our way.

You wanna play, let’s play.

SD Interrupts your regularly scheduled programming…

I hate thiefs, I honesty do, they make me bitchy. And worse than thiefs are plagiarists, they don’t merely make me bitchy, on the contrary, they make me contemplate acts that would fall under the category of “unladylike”.

Oh, Samantha, if you were going to steal my work and try to pass it off as your own, you probably should’ve made a slight variation to my post instead of using it word for fucking word. That’s just stupid, and dare I say, tacky.

Now, since you stole them from here, I’m assuming you come here? Well, if that’s the case, I’m going to suggest that you remove my haiku’s from the site you posted them at before I’m forced to go play with copyright laws and all that other fun stuff.

P.S. And, Samantha, since I’m currently having a ball playing in your blog posts, I might suggest that while you’re at it, you can go ahead and remove the rest of my posts that you’ve plagiarized (and all those other talented bloggers you’ve stolen from as well–Freya, Always Aroused Girl, Shay, Orchidea–the list goes on…). And a word of advice, if you can’t write then you should stick to the fucking polls, but hell, you probably stole those too.

And while I’m still in bitch-mode, anyone else who thinks it’s a good idea to take my words and pass them off as their own–IT’S NOT! I’m fairly mild mannered, but my writing is very personal, and I won’t allow anyone to disrespect it by using it to compensate for their own lack of talent. Ever.

Alright, I’m done, we can now return to our regularly scheduled program (scroll down, yes, there)…

EDITED: It looks like Samantha removed her head from her ass, and took down that which she stole, which incidentally, was everything save the polls I mentioned above. And big thanks to the anonymous commenter who led me in her direction.

And hey, Samantha, are you the one from Texas currently littering my stats with all those Google searches you’re runnning I’m assuming to see if your plagiarized posts pull up with my original posts when you run a search? You don’t need to waste your time, of course they will, you don’t even have to be relatively smart to know that.

The #1 Way to Wear Out Your Welcome.

In a sense this place is like my house, and all of the lovely people who pass through here on a daily basis, my guests. And I welcome them, I truly do. But let me ask you, if I were to come into your house, and oh, let’s say, pilfer the fine china on my way out, you’d be a mite perturbed, yes?

I would be. And incidentally, am.

My writing is an expression of myself, and therefore, very personal. It may be smut to some, but to me, it’s a piece of myself that I’m sharing with you, and all I ask in return is that you respect it, and me. I’m honored, and always humbled when anyone enjoys something I’ve written so much that they feel the need to share it on their own blog. I have NO problems with that. What I DO have a problem with is someone coming here, and copying a WHOLE post without so much as a “do you mind“, and transferring that post to their own blog. And you may argue that at the very bottom you did in fact post a link, not to the specific post you pilfered, but leading back to this blog. But it doesn’t matter. You didn’t ask, you didn’t take a small piece of something you enjoyed that you wanted to share, you weren’t using it to enhance something of your own or to emphasize a point you were trying to make. What you did was take an ENTIRE post of mine, and reproduce on your blog as content filler. That is unacceptable to me.

Maybe your intention is to promote other people’s work? Perhaps you should visit Bacchus or Viviane, and learn how that’s done because you’re going about it the wrong way, and I doubt anyone will thank you for it.

I’m not going to post up your link because I’m bitchy enough to NOT want any traffic sent your way, but since your IP hits my site numerous times a day, I’m figuring you’ll see this, and hopefully get the message.

Lastly, I write for myself, I write for him, and I write for us. But I do NOT write to create filler for your blog, nor do I write to compensate for your complete lack of talent, and I imagine none of the other sex bloggers you’ve “borrowed” from do either.

Going back to the “house” reference I made in the beginning, you want to borrow the sheets — fine, but if you wouldn’t mind, leave the fucking bed here.

Edited: Major props to Artfuldodger for stepping in to give a verbal smackdown to the aforementioned person, and in turn, rectifying the situation quite nicely. As I said in my comment at S.I.C., you quite simply ROCK. Thank you.